1 00:00:00,334 --> 00:00:03,070 Suicide does not see race, does not see ethnicity. 2 00:00:03,070 --> 00:00:07,875 It happens in every single race, ethnic population that exists. 3 00:00:07,875 --> 00:00:10,377 It is increasing and we need to come together 4 00:00:10,377 --> 00:00:11,979 to actually make a difference. 5 00:00:11,979 --> 00:00:15,349 The greatest impact would be just having a heart for people. 6 00:00:15,349 --> 00:00:17,684 Just knowing who you're talking to, 7 00:00:17,684 --> 00:00:19,553 getting to know that person, and basically 8 00:00:19,553 --> 00:00:22,222 not trying to solve their problem 9 00:00:22,222 --> 00:00:24,191 but trying to get them to see 10 00:00:24,191 --> 00:00:26,326 that it's not as bad as they think it is. 11 00:00:30,631 --> 00:00:35,435 In 2005, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 12 00:00:35,435 --> 00:00:37,905 number was initiated. 13 00:00:37,905 --> 00:00:40,240 It was the idea of a man who 14 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,944 actually lost his wife to suicide 15 00:00:43,944 --> 00:00:48,715 after she was dealing with post-partum depression, 16 00:00:48,715 --> 00:00:54,655 and it was his vision that people would not have to search 17 00:00:54,655 --> 00:00:57,824 for the local number in their community to call. 18 00:00:57,824 --> 00:01:00,227 988 is built on that same foundation. 19 00:01:00,594 --> 00:01:02,262 So, now, the big thing for-- 20 00:01:02,262 --> 00:01:04,031 that we all have to remember, 21 00:01:04,031 --> 00:01:05,599 like, when we're providing 22 00:01:05,599 --> 00:01:07,834 services to folks in crisis 23 00:01:07,834 --> 00:01:10,537 is that crisis is completely self-defined. 24 00:01:10,537 --> 00:01:13,307 If you're wondering if you should call, 25 00:01:13,307 --> 00:01:14,074 you should probably call. 26 00:01:19,246 --> 00:01:22,049 So, when a person calls 988, 27 00:01:22,049 --> 00:01:25,485 they're connected to a crisis counselor, 28 00:01:25,485 --> 00:01:28,388 and that crisis counselor is trained 29 00:01:28,388 --> 00:01:30,457 and is able to provide support. 30 00:01:30,457 --> 00:01:33,293 A caller can expect to 31 00:01:33,293 --> 00:01:36,163 discuss alternatives to suicide. 32 00:01:36,163 --> 00:01:40,200 Talk about coping skills, talk about resources 33 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,636 and ways to move forward beyond the call. 34 00:01:42,636 --> 00:01:45,305 When you call on behalf of somebody else, 35 00:01:45,305 --> 00:01:49,843 what we do is we take every call like a crisis. 36 00:01:50,143 --> 00:01:53,814 So, we ask questions about who they're concerned about, 37 00:01:53,814 --> 00:01:57,517 but we're also at the same time providing emotional support 38 00:01:57,517 --> 00:01:59,619 to the third-party caller as well. 39 00:01:59,886 --> 00:02:02,489 So, there are a number of misconceptions 40 00:02:02,489 --> 00:02:05,292 about crisis chat and text. 41 00:02:05,292 --> 00:02:07,094 The conversations, they're not scripted. 42 00:02:07,094 --> 00:02:08,729 There is not--there are things 43 00:02:08,729 --> 00:02:09,930 that we might need to assess for. 44 00:02:09,930 --> 00:02:11,832 There might be steps we need to cover. 45 00:02:11,832 --> 00:02:15,569 But the conversation itself has the potential to be 46 00:02:15,569 --> 00:02:19,973 just as authentic, just as human between two people 47 00:02:19,973 --> 00:02:23,644 as, um, any other medium for communication. 48 00:02:23,644 --> 00:02:26,847 And when people are having one of the worst days of their life, 49 00:02:26,847 --> 00:02:29,983 they can call us, they can chat, they can text, 50 00:02:29,983 --> 00:02:31,418 um, and when they come out on the other side, 51 00:02:31,418 --> 00:02:32,285 they're feeling better. 52 00:02:32,552 --> 00:02:35,122 Life is hard. Being a human is hard. 53 00:02:35,122 --> 00:02:38,725 And we all go through things and struggle 54 00:02:38,725 --> 00:02:41,461 and if in my job I can provide one person 55 00:02:41,461 --> 00:02:44,998 with a safe space to talk and get the support they need, 56 00:02:45,032 --> 00:02:47,768 then that's a great job for me that day, so. 57 00:02:47,968 --> 00:02:50,704 There is a lot of people out there 58 00:02:50,704 --> 00:02:52,806 that are struggling with suicidal thoughts, 59 00:02:52,806 --> 00:02:54,541 that are struggling with suicidal behavior, 60 00:02:54,541 --> 00:02:55,942 that are struggling with hopelessness 61 00:02:55,942 --> 00:02:57,778 and depression and anxiety. 62 00:02:57,778 --> 00:03:01,448 It is normal and you don't have to feel ashamed 63 00:03:01,448 --> 00:03:03,517 for having those experiences, 64 00:03:03,517 --> 00:03:05,686 and there is help available.